Different person. Same story.
Fix the root. Change the story.

For codependents stuck in the same patterns: a root-cause program that finds what's driving them, heals the source, and brings you back to your true self.

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Find your program

Which one is you?

Codependency shows up in two distinct patterns. Choose the one that sounds like you.

How it works

01

Letting Go of the Fantasy

Identify the emotional wounds, distortions, and survival strategies that shaped your relationships and measure your symptoms to track progress.

02

Becoming Your Own Person

Work through 8 self-paced modules built to address and heal the root of codependency, not just manage the symptoms.

03

Rebuilding Healthy Relationships

Stay supported until the old patterns no longer run your life and lasting transformation becomes your new normal.

Your recovery,
real and documented.

These are real clients — real people who completed the program. Every module maps to measured symptom change, tracked monthly. When you join, we'll document your recovery the exact same way.

96% avg. symptom reduction
6–12 months to baseline
<10% target symptom score
Avg. Symptom Score From real clients, tracked monthly
BEFORE 77.8% AFTER 3.1% ↓ 96% avg. reduction · real, documented data

Real, documented data: clients enter the program averaging 77.8% symptom severity and graduate at 3.1%, tracked monthly until they reach a healthy baseline.

Results from people just like you

Every score here belongs to a real person. We track symptom data monthly, not to prove a point, but because the people in this program deserve to see exactly how far they've come.

Case Study · Anxious Borderline Codependent Beth K.
Before
71.6%
After
1.2%
↓ 98% reduction
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Case Study · Anxious Borderline Codependent Dianne S.
Before
72.1%
After
0%
↓ 100% reduction
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Case Study · Anxious Borderline Codependent Ray W.
Before
88.8%
After
6.1%
↓ 93% reduction
BPD · 7 months Read →
Case Study · Anxious Borderline Codependent Joce M.
Before
78.8%
After
5.1%
↓ 94% reduction
BPD · 8 months Read →
Case Study · Anxious Borderline Codependent Jenny L.
Before
74.3%
After
2.4%
↓ 97% reduction
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Case Study · Anxious Borderline Codependent Sarah P.
Before
76.4%
After
3.5%
↓ 95% reduction
BPD · 8 months Read →
Case Study · Anxious Borderline Codependent Lara V.
Before
85.0%
After
5.2%
↓ 94% reduction
BPD · 9 months Read →
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The heart behind My Healing Work™

The heart behind My Healing Work™

What other programs miss.

My Healing Work™ vs. traditional therapy and symptom-management programs

My Healing Work™
Other programs
Treats the root cause, not just symptoms
Measurable finish line (below 10% baseline)
Monthly symptom tracking with real data
Specifically designed for personality patterns
Access until you're actually better, not a time limit

Simple, honest pricing.

Access continues until you reach your healthy baseline, not until your subscription runs out.

Self-paced
$250/mo

Work through the program on your own schedule, with full access to all 8 core modules and your symptom dashboard.

  • All 8 core modules
  • Monthly symptom assessments
  • Progress dashboard
  • Community access
  • Access until baseline
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Group Journey
$625/mo

Everything in With Coaching, plus an intimate group of 6–10 people going through the program alongside you, with group classes.

  • All 8 core modules
  • Monthly symptom assessments
  • Progress dashboard
  • Community access
  • Personal coach assigned to you
  • An intimate group of 6–10 people going through it with you
  • Group classes
  • Access until baseline
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"Most programs treat the surface. We go to the source, the specific cognitive distortions that no one else has isolated. That's why this works when nothing else has."

— Ashley Zahabian, Founder

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Common questions

No. My Healing Work™ is a structured self-recovery program, not therapy. It's not a replacement for clinical care, but it's designed to complement it, or to support you if you're not currently in therapy.
If you feel things too intensely, fear being abandoned, and find yourself pushing people away and pulling them back, the Anxious Borderline Codependent program is likely yours. If you keep people at a distance, rely on control or self-sufficiency, and find closeness threatening, the Avoidant Narcissistic Codependent program is likely yours. If you're unsure, book a free consultation and we'll guide you.
The program is self-paced with 8 core modules. Most clients reach their healthy baseline in 6–12 months. You stay in the program with specialist support until your symptom score drops below 10%.
Clients have the option of being paired with a personal coach who monitors your symptom data, guides you through the modules, and provides support between sessions. 1:1 sessions are held over video and are available as an add-on to the self-paced program.
Yes. Everything you share within the program is private. Your data is never shared or sold.